The past is an abusive spouse that cultural conservatives have to divorce and then befriend for the sake of the children. Let me explain.
A couple of weeks ago I posted Dying Traditions II which argued that Southerners who are trying to maintain their Southern Heritage are fundamentally mistaken, and then in a short post entitled "Dying Traditions III" I refuted that argument as I would expect a lover of the Southern heritage to do:
We're from somewhere, and you aren't. We have roots. We have memories. We have a cultural heritage and identity that you have no idea about. You cannot even begin to understand what we feel because it's not something you have ever felt. Who are you to tell us that our traditions are dead? Who are you to tell us to get over it and move on? Move on to what? To an empty cosmopolitanism that doesn't care about or feel deeply about anything? What do you have to offer us that is better than what we have and cherish? Your pious abstractions don't cut it. So STFU.
First let me say that I make no attempt to argue that the North is morally superior to the South. That's stupid, and there's no question that Southerners have good reason to resent Yankee or Liberal smugness when Yankees have nothing to be smug about. My argument is that Yankee cosmopolitanism is healthier because more flexible and adaptive in a rapidly changing globalizing world.
I'm fine with any subculture that wants to resist assimilation into this globalizing fusion culture, and I'd even say that I'm sympathetic--parts of it should be resisted, particularly in the economic sphere. But insofar as a culture is animated by resentment and by a nostalgia for something that really doesn't exist anymore and can't exist, I'd argue that it's a trap, a whited sepulcher, and the longer one is stuck in it, the more curdled and decayed becomes his soul.
I'd argue by extension that the cultural right has a form of cultural co-dependency. It's like the wife who won't leave her abusive husband because she's afraid to be alone and doesn't know how she'll be able to support herself. Whatever wholesomeness the cultural right thinks it's preserving is in fact a parody of wholesomeness, and it's driven by a need to feel safe and to preserve a sense of order even when the life preserved by that order is unhealthful.
Am I saying that everything cultural conservatives value is unhealthful? Of course, not. The values important for conservatives--loyalty, respect, reverence for the sacred--should be culture-wide values. It's just that the right applies these values dysfunctionally--i.e., their loyalty, respect, and reverence are misplaced or misdirected. They are loyal to that which does not deserve their loyalty and are dying nobly in ignoble wars. They respect authorities that are morally bankrupt frauds, and they revere idols, not the living God who will not be contained in stone-rigid formulas.