...the specific character of despair is this: it is precisely unaware of being despair. --Soren Kierkegaard, Sickness unto Death
There is abundant chatter today about “being spiritual” but scarcely anyone believes that a person can be of troubled mind and healthy spirit. Nor can we fathom the idea that the happy wanderer, who is all smiles and has accomplished everything on his or her self-fulfillment list, is, in fact, a case of despair. But while Kierkegaard would have agreed that happiness and melancholy are mutually exclusive, he warns, “Happiness is the greatest hiding place for despair.” --Gordon Marino
A few weeks ago I reposted a piece that quoted extensively from Emerson's essay on "Heroism", and in the last paragraphs I say
Of course, Nietzsche blamed Christianity for promoting this slavish, weak-souled quality, and there is some merit in the accusation. But that's a theme I want to address in coming posts. Because now more than ever we need an imagination of future possibility that has religious roots and which inspires in us, and perhaps more importantly inspires in the young, an aspiration toward robust virtue. This is not a liberal project.
My post several days ago on "Honor" describing how it was a delusional recognition/ego fantasy as contrasted with the idea of 'integrity' was one attempt to develop that alternative idea of 'virtue'. In today's post, I want to address what Gordon Marino points to as the delusion of happiness. I think that the framework within which I am trying to do this is shaped first of all by the larger theme developed on this site, which is that God and the sacred are no longer available to us anywhere out there--in nature or in culture and ritual. That doesn't mean that God and the sacred don't exist and never did, but rather that they've gone into hiding, underground so to speak, when the underground is the depths of the human heart. There lies the sacred, or at least the potential for its growth and through it the renewal of the face of the earth.
If there is anything the gospels make clear it's that the ur-Christian experience is of a new birth of a kingdom within. (How many people who call themselves Christians have any idea what this is?) My argument on this blog over the years has been that this "kingdom" born within is a very real experience at first tentative and fragile but which grows stronger if it is nurtured and develops into the interior 'nomos' that we recognize as conscience. Conscience is the cognitive capability that as it grows develops in us an increased capacity for discerning 'what is called for' in any given situation, and what is called for is often subversive of the existing norms, laws, and practices of the culture in which one's conscience grows.
I am averse to deontological presecriptions, but I do not consider myself a relativist. Nevertheless, I am in a certain sense an anti-nomian, if by 'nomian' we mean the existing mores and norms of any culture or society, and yet I am deeply 'nomian' in the sense that I assert vehemently the existence of the Law that is in each of us a seed planted in the depths of human heart that must germinate and grow. And so as with all things that develop and grow, there are people who have more highly developed and thus more highly cognitive consciences, and there are those who have less developed and confused consciences. We are in despair to the degree that we are oblivious of our conscience, and we live in hope to the degree that one grows within us to a point where we have learned how to submit to its interior nomos.
The basic 'heuristic' or working hypothesis that governs most of what I write on this blog is that the human future, which is coincident with the future of the earth, depends on the emergence of conscience understood in this sense of interior nomos and logos in such a way as to play a more robust role in the shaping of our cultural, political, economic life. And while I do not think that Christians have any special claim or are any more adept than non-Christians in matters of conscience, I do believe the gospels and the ur-Christian narrative (as contrasted with the historical narrative of the churches) provides a framework for understanding what this nomos/logos is and how it works in the human soul.
I say this in order to explain that my debunking of heroism, honor, or the common aspiration for human flourishing and happiness as forms of Kierkegaardian despair is not in the service of snarkery or of some attempt to be superior to all of that. It's in the service of trying to think through and to discern, for my own sake as well as for readers here who are interested to think about it with me, what is deeply real and what is delusion. I certainly make no claims to have any special insight here. I am no prodigy of conscience. My moral cognitive capacity is primitive at best. But I have enough of it to know it's real and to want to take seriously the task of developing it.
So why is honor and heroism and the aspiration to be happy despair? They are when they are fantasies that lead to dead ends. Is it always wrong to have a 'dream' for a flourishing life? No, but it's easy for our dreams and fantasies to lead us down those dead ends rather than along the way that brings us gradually to the realization of who we were created to be. When we we are "bewitched" by the first, it's a form of despair. But how to know the difference?
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I came of age in an era when Freud was still taken seriously, and when it wasn't shameful to admit you found Jung intriguing. But we're in a post-Freudian era now. Something happened--in the 80s or 90s?--when it became accepted conventional wisdom that the ailments of the soul were nothing more than bad brain chemistry. I was never a Freudian, but Freud, at least, when he was taken seriously, created a space in our mainstream cultural life for considering the possibility that we have souls that are in need of our care.
For Freud the soul or psyche was mostly a cauldron of sub-rational, instinctual impulses, but while I was never a Jungian, I found him interesting for finding a quasi culturally legitimate way to talk about the super-rational and transpersonal archetypes as mixed in with all the other impulses in that cauldron. That kind of thing seems to have been pushed to the periphery now. Jung is considered a flake today in a way he wasn't thirty or forty years ago.
Ernest Becker, in his book The Denial of Death, argues that Kierkegaard was talking about both the sub- and super-rational in a proto-postmodern idiom decades before both Freud and Jung. Kierkegaard and Nietzsche are, in my opinion, the profounder and more honest psychologists in comparison to Freud and Jung, and each, Nietzsche and Kierkegaard, in a profounder way, was a prophet pointing to two possibilities that lay before humans in what has become the no-longer modern age. I think we're living the Nietzschean alternatives, but I'd argue that real hope lies in living a Kierkegaardian one.
Let's do a bloggy comparison of the two: I admire Nietzche's cultural analysis, but find his prescription for a cure regressive. I admire Kierkegaard's cultural analysis, and see him as someone who points us to our best future. Both understood the leveling cultural forces carried by late modernity and the spirit of capitalism and how they were grinding up the human soul and churning out despairing Last Men. And both offered alternatives, which I would argue are the only alternatives to being bread-and-circuses Last Men if one is serious about finding one. Kierkegaard's solution, if not the road less frequently taken (I think there are many 'anonymous' Kierkegaardians out there), is certainly a road much less celebrated in popular and high culture. W.H. Auden and Walker Percy were deeply influenced by Kierkegaard. What significant literary figure or thinker is alive today about whom the same could be said? There are many pop-Nietscheans--Ayn Rand comes to mind--but are there any pop Kierkegaardians? [One example comes to mind: I saw the Tao of Steve a few months ago, which was an entertaining attempt to make some Kierkegaardian themes more available. Any others?]
Nietzsche and, more obviously, Darwin define the cultural narrative that dominates mainstream secular thinking in our time. Darwin’s influence is better understood, but Nietzsche is no less important in terms of his significance in shaping the postmodern stream of secularist thought. When talk of Nietzsche comes up, it’s usually associated with a discussion of his idea of the uebermensch “Superman” or, and the way the Nazis appropriated it in to their bizarre ideas about the Aryan master race, or the Leopold and Loeb affair. While the German word uebermensch is usually translated into English as superman, it's meaning is closer to "overcoming man." And for Nietzsche 'overcoming' meant self-transcending.
And we could point to many of the toxic ways in which Nietzsche’s philosophy, fairly or unfairly, has been adapted to justify excessively pathological behaviors. Just as there are vulgar Christians, there are vulgar Nietzscheans, and it's unfair to attribute to the eponymous founder the limitations of those who claim him as their inspiration. (Nietzsche understood that as well as anyone as in his famous quote: "In truth, there was only one Christian, and he died on the cross.") Nietzsche was an honest and very serious thinker, and he was confronting a very real problem head on. He was struggling for a way to embrace transcendence in a world in which grace was an impossibility.
Not possible, I'm afraid. There was only one Nietzsche, and he died in an asylum. But he deserves credit for seeing more clearly than almost anyone the nature of the problem and the importance at the 'end of an age' to find a new model of open-ended human future possibility to which late moderns could aspire that contrasted with the homogenized lumpen mass of Last Men into which he thought his contemporaries were being transformed.
The conflict between Superman and Last Man has had a tremendous impact on our popular culture in the way we have come to understand heroism or what the well-lived life is. It is seen, for instance, in almost every film that comes out of Hollywood since the 1960s. The protagonist, whether he’s an action hero, or the free-spirited type that for instance Jack Nicholson portrays in One Flew over the Cuckoo’s Nest, Paul Newman in Cool Hand Luke, or even Matthew Broderick in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (just to take three films that randomly come to mind) is a variation of Nietzsche’s uebermensch.
Whether Nietzsche would approve of these heroes is another matter, but we understand our heroism these days in a Nietzschean idiom. He is formulaically depicted as a larger-than-life, make-up-the-rules-as-you-go-along Superman who always fights a villain who represents the repressive, conformist law of the Last Man--aka, "The System". Every plot that pits the alienated, risk-taking, bold individual against the soul-crushing ”system” is a variation on this Nietzschean theme.
The American adaptation of Nietzsche’s Superman is hardly perceived as pathological. Rather in one variation or another, he is the charismatic, passionate man. He’s in touch with his instincts, he knows what he wants, and he thinks that rules are for lesser beings, namely the Last-Man wimps who lack his boldness and initiative. In Hollywood terms you’re either a Superman or a conformist, ground down, bread-and-circuses Last Man, and if you’re a Last Man, your story is only interesting if it’s about how you find the courage to become a Superman.
The uebermensch is antinomian and subversive, but in the service of what? Usually mostly the service of his ego or in some vague idea of 'freedom' for its own sake. As if the assertion of freedom for its own sake over against the system equates with 'then they live happily ever after'. The real question is what does one do with one's freedom beyond simply fighting against those who would suppress it? Does it matter if we use our freedom in the service of a delusion or in the service of the Real? Of course it does, but first you have to believe that there is a Real. Otherwise everyone is living in a dream of his own choosing, and every dream is equal, if perhaps not aesthetically, ontologically. But serious people cannot be satisfied with to substitute the aesthetic for the ontological. The Nazi aesthetic then becomes equal to a Zen aesthetic, merely a matter of preference. That, of course, is Kierkegaard's point in his discussion of the movement from the aesthetic to the ethical. What is it that awakens when one makes that movement? It's the germination of the aforementioned conscience, which is the birth of the Self.
The Nietzschean heroes tend to be transgressive "libertarian" types who seek to overcome the restrictions of traditional morality when they appear in popular cinema, but in real life, particularly in the American political sphere, the Nietzschean hero is embraced more readily and dangerously by the political right. Right wingers like Dick Cheney see themselves as uebermenschen, and see Liberals as the contemptible promoters of a society that produces lumpen Last Men: Rule of law? That's for Last Men, not for me. I am a superman who creates his own reality. Ironies, of course abound, when it comes to the ways in which the lockstep, conformist, law-and-order movement conservative comes to support leaders like Cheney, who sees himself fancies himself above the law and beyond good and evil. These movement conservatives are, alas, Last Men, and they submit to the strong man, the Big Daddy, who promises them bread and circuses and to keep them safe.
But movement conservatives don't see themselves as Last Men. Rather they see themselves as players in a grandiose heroic fantasy. They see themselves as homorable defenders of freedom, and they see Liberals as destroyers of it. Movement Conservatives, with the exception of the demagogues who cynically manipulate them, are Last Men through and through, but they project their Last Manhood onto their ideological polar opposites. One thing about Freud and Jung: they understood how projection works. And if there is one essential element of collective right-wing psychology, it's their projection of dissociated negative parts of themselves to demonize those whom they perceive to be their enemies, whether they are Communists, Muslims, or Democrats. Obama is a trifecta in this respect.
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So what alternative does Kierkegaard offer to either the Last Man or the Superman? Here's Marino in the NYT piece:
Though it will make the Bill Mahers of the world wince, despair according to Kierkegaard is a lack of awareness of being a self or spirit. A Freud with religious categories up his sleeves, the lyrical philosopher emphasized that the self is a slice of eternity. While depression involves heavy burdensome feelings, despair is not correlated with any particular set of emotions but is instead marked by a desire to get rid of the self, or put another way, by an unwillingness to become who you fundamentally are. This unwillingness often takes the form of flat out wanting to be someone else.
Delusion, therefore, is wanting to be someone other than who you are. But who are you? Well, the Christian answer is that you are the being in whose image God created you to live in communion with him and the rest of creation. I explore this problem of Selfhood in my posts "From Outer to Inner; From Given to Chosen I and II", But here's the bottom line: The difference between Nietzsche and Kierkegaard is that the latter was open to the super-rational, the realm of grace and freedom. Nietzsche's world, for all his longing for liberation, was a closed system, a jail, the overcoming Self come to a dead end, locked in on itself, an eternity of drawn-out Groundhog Days, endless cycles of eternal return. You can argue that Nietzsche is the braver for accepting the hard truth, but to do so requires a willful rejection of so much evidence for the existence of grace.
You don't have to believe in the Christian mythos; unpacking that is graduate level work that isn't all that important in the final analysis. Just acknowledging the existence of grace is all that's required. It's Ariadne's thread, lying there right in front of us, discernible by conscience, for conscience is our cognitive capacity recognize the working of grace. And if one uses it as a guide, it will bring him wherever he needs to go, whether with the correct intellectual understanding or not. And for some pulling on that thread might lead them to Kierkegaard who might help them make some sense of what they've got hold of, because his work is nothing if it is not primarily a phenomenology of grace.
That's the only thing that explains his description of the movement out of the aesthetic, into the ethical, and ultimately into the religious. It's at the heart of his antinomian ideas about the teleological suspension of the ethical. It's why he points to Abraham as the paradigmatic man of grace. But the reverse is true as well: you're not going to get anywhere with Kierkegaard unless you have some basic apprehension of the basic logic of grace. His stuff will seem only to be convoluted nonsense without it.
And if the world is in fact devoid of grace, and if the great tradition that bears witness to it is delusional, then Nietzsche's intuition about the logic of eternal return is quite correct. But once you accept the possibility that he is not correct, the world is turned upside down and we learn that the thread of conscience leads us down a path designed to subvert the system from within its belly, not in the style of the Nietzschean hero, but in the style the Logos bearer--those who have Selves reconstituted in the image and likeness. Frodo Baggins is more the heroic prototype here, but for more on this, see my posts Christian Liberty and Disembedding and Theosis.
For despair is the condition of not-Self, when by Self we mean the 'image and likeness' we were created us to become, the Self that is destined to live in communion with other realized Selves in the communion of saints. To be in despair is to be on a path of delusion that leads to the retardation of the Self's development or to its destruction. To live in hope is to be on the path that cultivates the Self's growth, and that is always a moral path, mostly walked in darkness, but lit a few feet in front of us by the flame of conscience. And this path often enough leads us to places we would rather not go. But it's easier to go there if we accept that happiness and human flourishing are not the only criteria to measure a life well lived.
[This is a revison of a 2009 post entitled "Kierkegaard on the Couch".]