There’s a mesmerizing and ironic artifice to Dolly Parton—a sincere and relatable duality. She’s one of those icons in whom seemingly opposing forces naturally connect: poverty and folksiness against the power of enormous success, vulnerability and tenderness against effervescent self-assuredness, a story of honesty and heartache under an image so artfully plastic it seems to turn in on itself. Her brand of iconography feels so aware of its own longing for beauty that it somehow trips over superficiality and falls back into the deepest reverence. What else is her appearance but a lie she’s telling us because she knows we love to hear it? “I think part of my magic, if I have any at all,” she once said on Australia’s 60 Minutes, “is that I look totally fake but am so totally real.”
I'm sure that if DP saw her name associated with such a pretentious sounding Latin phrase such as coincidentia oppositorum, she'd have a good laugh, but one of the commonest of commonplaces associated with her is how she transcends her contradictions. But it's true--she has significant contradictions and she does transcend them. So I thought it might be important to at least try to understand how she does it. So here are some preliminary thoughts along those lines.
First, If you haven't listened to the nine-part WNYC podcast about her, Dolly Parton's America, you should definitely do that and soon. If you have only time for one, listen to Episode 2, "I will Always Leave You", which is mostly about her fraught relationship with Porter Wagoner. And the Netflix series entitled Dolly Parton's Heartstrings is worth watching too. Most of what I have to say about DP reflects what I learned about her from those two sources. There's a kind of Fichtean theme that runs through both: there are powerful obstacles that separate us. These obstacles and the conflicts they create are not a bug but a feature of life because without them human beings would not have the opportunity to discover who they are as free spiritual beings. We can choose to overcome them, or we can make them worse by ignoring them or feeding the resentment, anger, and fear that fuels them. Each of the Heartstrings stories is about people who choose to confront and overcome these obstacles and in doing so to become more themselves.
So the goal is not only a Fichtean affirmation of self in overcoming the enemy, but more importantly that we only become more ourselves when we recognize the selfhood and dignity of the "enemy". That's more of a Christian idea than a Fichtean one. The endings in the Heartstring series might be seen as sentimental by some, but I'd say that they are deeply true in the same way as at the end of Shakespeare's comedies. After the conflicts and misunderstandings are resolved, there's usually a wedding or a circle dance, and when well-performed, the audience is caught up in a deep, archetypal joy. This dynamic is at work at the end of Capra's It's a Wonderful Life, and it is at work in the Heartstring stories in a similar way. Those who dismiss this as not real or as overly sentimental misread these moments in a very significant way.
On one level such positive outcomes seem unrealistic, but that's because they're hyperrealistic, that is, they tap into the the transformative energy of an archetype, and the archetype active in these stories I'd call the "Communion Archetype". To feel its power is to feel its joy. It's an archetype that that Owen Barfield describes as defining the end of history--Final Participation--that we can now experience proleptically, that is, through a glass darkly. It's an archetype that I'd like to think in its modest way is an inspiration for this blog called "After the Future".
If these endings feel contrived and sentimental to you, that means that you don't feel the energy of the archetype. And there are many obstacles that prevent our feeling it when it's there. If now, for instance, I was to play Beethoven's Fifth Symphony, I doubt I would feel its power, but that does not mean that the power isn't there. I know it's there because I have memories of experiencing it. The problem now is not with the music, but with something in me--some obstacle--that prevents me from responding to what is there. I don't want to get sidetracked explaining all the "jading" factors that create this obstacle, but to be jaded is not the same thing as to be discriminating. My point is, first, that the effort to overcome such an obstacle is analogous to the overcoming what is dramatized in the stories mentioned above. And, second, if you don't believe there's anything beyond the obstacle, you won't make the effort to overcome it; if you do believe something's there, you will. Our condition as late moderns is to be largely skeptical that there is anything there, and that paralyzes us.
So the goal in Shakespeare, Capra, Heartstrings, and other classic comedies is not the triumph of the individual over the forces of evil, but rather the triumph that overcomes conflict itself in the experience of reconciliation and communion. Communion is the antithesis of the hive mind or the mob because it involves free individuals having to choose it and in choosing it to become more themselves. There is neither individuality nor freedom in the hive or the mob. True communion is only possible among people who are truly themselves, and to be in a hive or mob is by definition to abdicate both. And so the biggest obstacles to communion are the myriad ways we all live false versions of ourselves. And that's what the Heartstings stories are about--people learning that they are trapped in false versions of themselves and then finding a way to free themselves and in doing so to discover the power that lies in communion at a deeper, truer level with others.
This overcoming of false versions of oneself, i.e., to move toward deeper levels of communion, is Dolly Parton's truth, and I think it's the key to understanding what enables her to transcend her contradictions. There is so much about her that seems fake--like her surgically manufactured appearance. But because of the way she jokes about it -- "It takes a lot of money to look this cheap", we can feel confident that she doesn't take that aspect of herself seriously. Like the Wizard of Oz she projects a persona that's bigger than life, but she has no delusions of grandeur. She knows who she is, which is just the little guy behind the curtain having fun trying to put on a good show. She knows the difference between what she projects and who she truly is. I think of Lady Gaga as doing much the same thing. This is completely different from what Donald Trump does. For him there is only the projected image, and that image is an expression of what is truest about him, which is his dishonesty. He's a con man, a modern day P.T. Barnum, and he cons himself as much as he attempts to con others.
So perhaps because I'm writing this the day after Trump's third State of the Union Address and on the day that he's being acquitted in the Senate, I feel compelled to make the comparison between him and Parton. I'm sure there are many Dolly fans who are also Trump supporters, and they see in him much of what they see in her. It's easy to see why: both are successful entertainers, both wealthy businesspeople, both, though way past their prime, still highly sexualized, both trade on their name branding. What makes Dollywood any different from Trump Tower? Aren't both monuments to inflated ego? I don't think so, but let's suss out why.
Is it possible make such a distinction without knowing either of them personally? Yes and No. It could be that I have it completely wrong, I could find out someday that Trump really was Atticus Finch to those who really knew him and Parton was Cruella DeVil, but I doubt it. There's enough evidence in the public record for both to make some educated guesses we can feel confident about. And I think an exercise like this is instructive for understanding this coincidentia oppositorum theme. I want to argue that each derives her or his power by virtue of an archetype--for Dolly Parton, it's the Communion Archetype; for Trump, the Chaos Archetype. The first has an integrating effect on those who 'participate' in it; the second a disintegrative effect in those it possesses.
I think a post for another day might be to tease out to what degree bigger-than-life people are free and to what degree they are determined (trapped) by the power of the archetypes that energize them. Was Napoleon free? Was Mozart? I have some ideas about that, but let me stipulate in provisional way for now that the Communion Archetype operates in a way that enhances a fully developed, free human being, and the Chaos Archetype in its many variations requires only raw instinct and animal cunning. The first works to integrate the serpent with the dove, the beast with the angel; the second is the serpent without the dove, the beast without the angel. The Great Chain of Being no longer shapes our cosmic imaginary, but it still works metaphorically. Chaos is at the bottom of the chain; Communion with the godhead is at the top.
Is there another type that is the Dove without the Serpent? Yes. I write about that in this post about Steinbeck's East of Eden. Doves without Serpents tend to be idealist flakes or hippies in the most benign cases, but in the most malign cases they can be rigid, purist, morally fanatic ideologues--Savonarolas, Robespierres, Inquisitors. Alcoholics and other addictive personality types are often idealist Doves who refuse to deal with the hard realities that the serpent thrives in. Serpents are drug dealers, not users. Or Doves enact an enantiodromia in which in their disillusionment they completely reverse poles from unbalanced, naive Doves to unbalanced, cynical Serpents. Extremely unbalanced Doves or Serpents spin off in one way or another into psychic disintegration and become captured by the Chaos Archetype. And when they do, they wreak havoc in the lives of those around them.
In the East of Eden post, I talk about how each of us is either a dove-dominant type or a serpent-dominant type, and that neither is morally superior, even if doves tend to be more socially acceptable in a boy-scouty way. Moral development is measured to the degree that doves integrate the recessive serpent aspects of their psyches, and serpents integrate the recessive dove aspects. In other words, we become successful human beings to the degree that we enact the coincidentia oppositorum. The marriage of the serpent-dominant Cal and the dove-dominant Abbra in East of Eden signifies a successful coincidentia oppositorum, the hieros gamos. The Dove-dominant Aron fails and is destroyed as he spins off into fanatic madness.
I would say that DP is an earthy, savvy Serpent-dominant type who has largely succeeded in integrating her recessive Dove aspect, and Trump is also a serpent-dominant type, who failed to integrate his Dove. He probably at this point in his life has no idea that it even exists. This is what makes him a madman. To what degree he has any culpability in becoming such a truly horrible human being us between him and God, but the fact remains that he is a truly horrible human being and is extremely dangerous because he is so unbalanced. His personal imbalance is bigger than life because of the way that the Chaos Archetype works in him, and he becomes a vortex that sucks into his chaos anyone near him who hasn't a firm foothold to prevent him from being swept off his feet. Until recently the Trumpian vortex was little more than a dust devil. But his election to president has made him a good-sized tornado--a 2 or a 3 on the Fujita scale. God help us if we don't find a way to contain him before he becomes a 5.
I should say, since I've been writing about it so much recently, that this aligns with Iain McGilchrist's book The Master and the Emissary. My 'dove' correlates with McG's depiction of how the right hemisphere opens us up to the utter uselessness and wonder of Being, and my 'serpent' with how McG's left hemisphere reduces Being to a useful abstraction. The left hemisphere values what is useful, graspable, controllable. In other words it values maps over the the concrete lifeworld of landscapes. Maps are useful in helping us to navigate in the life world, but they are not the life world. There's nothing wrong with maps except when they become valued more than what they represent, especially if they come to substitute for it.
Thus, Magritte's famous--
We need the the utilitarian serpent and its clever, instrumental reason in order to work effectively and safely in a hostile world teeming with wolves. But when it becomes an end in itself, when it loses its grounding in the right hemisphere, it squeezes the life out of the soul. McG's argument, using my Serpent/Dove analogy (which he does not use), is that we currently live in a Serpent-dominant cultural milieu, and we have to find a way of opening up and reintegrating the repressed Dove, an aspect that the left-dominant elites regard as flaky and naive, subjective and unverifiable. The culture, in other words, is like Trump--dominated by the Serpent and either forgetful or contemptuous of the Dove.
Dolly Parton is a wealthy entertainer and a shrewd, practical business woman. That's her Serpent part, but she's not just that. In DP we see a model of integration of the Dove with the Serpent, indeed the Serpent is in the service of the Dove, and if this reading of her is correct, it's her ability to keep those two aspects in the right relationship that makes her a model of the coincidentia oppositorum. And that's what makes her so different from Donald Trump, whatever the appearances might indicate otherwise.
When people effect this reconciliation of opposites in their own lives, it affects those around them. That's why she's a unifying figure while Trump is a polarizing one. Her fraught relationship with Porter Wagoner exemplifies this. It could have been one of the Heartstrings stories. It's about conflict and reconciliation, but not a reconciliation that was effected by giving in on what was essential for the maintenance and growth of her integrity. Their conflict was born of DP's need to be her own woman, and of PW's inability to accept that. This was his failure not hers, because he, not she, was trapped in a false version of himself, and he probably would have stayed stuck in that false version of himself had Dolly not insisted on (1) being her own woman, while at the same time (2) refusing to let PW's bitterness to define the relationship. In refusing to be a false version of herself, she in the end enabled PW to become a better version of himself. In the end, the Communion Archetype shining through her effected their reconciliation. That's a powerful story because it's a real-life enactment of the Communion Archetype. It's the circle dance at the end of a Shakespeare comedy.
Not giving-in in the service of one's integrity is completely different from digging-in in the service of protecting one's false version of oneself. (Hat's off to Mitt Romney, btw, for being at this point the only Republican Senator who seems to understand the difference between not giving in and digging in.) At first Porter Wagoner got himself very dug in, and so was like Donald Trump and all the senators who are digging in with him. We'e all been there; we've all dug in to defend false versions of ourselves at different points in our lives. The difference between Wagoner and Trump lies in that Wagoner had a Dolly Parton in his life whereas Trump seems only to have had variations of Stormy Daniels, big-boobed Parton parodies.
That's why Dollywood isn't Trump Tower. Both are expressions of what's real in each, and neither would be possible without their potent fantasy projections, their dreams. But whatever its flaws or whatever criticisms one might direct toward Dollywood, it's something she built to be a source of enjoyment and employment for her people in east Tennessee. I see it as an expression of her Dove and its intimate connection to the lifeworld/culture of her people that shaped her and enabled her to become whom she became. It was a way of giving back. Trump Tower is pure Serpent.
There's another archetype DP reminds me of--the Samaritain woman Jesus meets at Jacob's Well, Photine (Jolene in Heartsrings?). She's the archetype of a kind of a lively, bawdy sinfulness that is yet supple-hearted and naive enough to respond to the intrusion of a disruptive, transcendent power into her life. Dolly's moment at the well happened when she was younger, in that boarded-up church she used to visit with all the pornographic graffiti decorating it. That's when the Serpent in her bowed to the Dove. She talks about that in episode 9 of the Dolly Parton's America podcast. I think of Jacob's Well as a symbol for the source of the obstacle-shattering life that enables us to become our best selves. It's there for each of us. But while you can lead a horse to water you can't make him drink. I was thinking of bringing in Dorothy Parker here, but it's not apt. The important part about Dolly is that she did drink, and she does think, and that's what makes her the anti-Trump, whether she sees herself that way or not.